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125 questions across 5 levels — from icebreakers to the conversations that actually matter.

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🌊 Emotional Depth

“What scares you most about being vulnerable?”

A
That they'll use it against me
B
That they won't care as much
C
That I'll lose myself

How It Works

Three steps to a real conversation

1

Pick a Level

Choose from 5 levels — start light or dive deep. Each level unlocks harder, more meaningful questions.

2

Answer Together

Take turns answering real questions. Choose from curated hints or write your own honest answer.

3

See Where You Stand

Answers reveal side by side. Discover what you agree on, where you differ, and what to talk about.

The 5 Levels

Start light. Go deep. Get real.

Each level takes you further — from fun first-date energy to the unspoken stuff that actually matters.

⚡Level 1

Icebreakers

First date energy

Fun, low-stakes questions that reveal personality without the pressure

“What's the most spontaneous thing you've ever done?”

🧭Level 2

Values & Lifestyle

What drives you

Money, ambition, family views — the stuff that actually matters for compatibility

“What does financial security look like to you?”

🌊Level 3

Emotional Depth

Getting real

Conflict styles, attachment, vulnerability — emotional intelligence check

“What's your attachment style, and how does it show up in relationships?”

🔮Level 4

Future Vision

Building something?

Kids, geography, career sacrifices — are you building toward the same thing?

“What does your ideal life look like in 10 years?”

🔥Level 5

Intimacy & Desire

No filters

Physical connection, love languages, boundaries — the unspoken stuff

“What makes you feel most desired?”

Try a Few

The questions you’ve been avoiding

Tap any question to see the answer hints.

⚡Icebreakers

“Describe your perfect lazy Sunday.”

A
Couch, comfort food, and binge-watching something good
B
Sleeping in, then a slow morning with coffee and no plans
C
Outside vibes — a walk, brunch, or just sitting in the sun
🧭Values & Lifestyle

“What's a value you'll never compromise on?”

A
Honesty — I can handle the truth but not lies
B
Respect — for me, my time, and my boundaries
C
Loyalty — I'm all in and I expect the same
🌊Emotional Depth

“What's your attachment style, and how does it show up in relationships?”

A
Anxious — I can overthink and need reassurance sometimes
B
Avoidant — I tend to pull back when things get intense
C
Secure — or at least working toward it with self-awareness
🔮Future Vision

“Would you relocate for love? Under what circumstances?”

A
Absolutely — if the relationship is solid and the plan makes sense
B
Maybe — it depends on what I'd be leaving behind
C
Unlikely — I'm rooted where I am and that matters to me

Play Your Way

Three ways to play

Solo

Reflect on your own. Discover what you actually want before you play with someone.

Together

Same Phone

Pass the phone back and forth. Take turns answering, then see each other's choices.

Multi-Device

Real-time sync

Each on your own phone. Answer simultaneously, reveal together. No peeking.

For the couple who's been dating 2 months and wants to know if this is going somewhere

For the long-distance pair who needs more than FaceTime small talk

For anyone who's ever thought "I wish I'd asked these questions sooner"

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